My Blog

A quiet reflection on pain and perspective People sometimes come to therapy saying, I’m not sure what my problem is. Someone close to me thought I should come. Often, they aren’t avoiding anything. They’re just very close to what they’re carrying. When we’re inside emotional pain, it doesn’t always register as distress. It feels like life. We adapt to it, function through it, and call it normal. From the inside, there’s nothing obvious to point at. So when someone close notic

Most of us carry some silent beliefs about crying. Maybe you grew up hearing things like “be strong,” “don’t cry,” or “handle it on your own.” Over time, many people begin to feel embarrassed when tears come or guilty if they “break down.” But crying isn’t a failure. It’s a natural, healthy emotional release that helps us heal. Sadness has a real purpose Sadness shows up when something we cared about no longer exists in the same way. It might be the end of a relationship, the

The other day, a client shared a story with me that beautifully captured the essence of love. She was waiting for her cab outside a...

Yesterday, after back-to-back online sessions, I noticed something familiar. My left temple was throbbing, my eyes felt heavy, and it was...

A few weeks ago, my friend Riya told me about a colleague she barely knew. Let’s call him Arjun. At first, it was a casual mention: “He...

A few years ago, a client told me a story about his colleague, Raj. Raj was the kind of person who could bluff his way through office...